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Whiskey & Work Podcast


Oct 8, 2024

In this episode, Kelsey sits down with Ashley Buffa, a powerhouse mother of 11 children, business owner, and home systems expert. Ashley shares her transformative approach to household management, coaching overwhelmed moms on how to shift from the "minion martyr" mindset to becoming confident, capable, and respected CEOs of their homes. With her proven systems, she teaches how to get children involved in chores, maintain structure, and create a home that is a place of peace, not stress.. Sit back, relax and grab a pen and paper for this one — you’re going to want to take some notes! 



What we’re talking about…



  • Importance of creating systems for household chores to maintain peace and order.

  • How Ashley shifted from a chaotic home life to a well-structured one by systematizing chores and responsibilities

  • Tips on how to apply business management skills to home management

  • The importance of introducing chores early to foster responsibility and life skills

  • How Ashley incorporates her kids into daily and weekly chores, making them part of the team

  • Fun and simple chore routines to engage even toddlers in the household tasks

  • Moving from a "minion martyr" mindset to a CEO mindset—leading with authority and empathy

  • Why it’s crucial to let go of the need for perfection in maintaining a household

  • The importance of self-care and delegating to family members for a well-balanced home life

  • How to set specific times during the day for cleaning to avoid overwhelm

  • Examples of how Ashley organizes her day with “anchor times” for chores, making them habitual

  • Tips for busy families with kids in school and extracurricular activities to fit in chore time

  • Step-by-step guidance on introducing chores to children and phasing in new responsibilities

  • How to keep everyone accountable, even the stubborn family members

  • Insights into creating systems that ensure nothing falls through the cracks, from daily chores to quarterly deep cleans

  • How to combat the chaos of busy family life and reduce the stress of cleaning and organization

  • The importance of rewarding progress and creating a positive environment for children to contribute

  • To learn more or connect with Ashley visit the links below! 





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Links Mentioned

 

Ashley Buffa’s Website

Ashley Buffa’s Instagram

Kelsey Murphy’s Website 

Kelsey Murphy’s Instagram